yep game. Its a strategic game or interested and not to interested. thank you vince vaugh for spelling it out
"I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation.
add in there
A. way to much pressure on the exclusive thing to happen right away.
B. Everyone likes to give their opinions and heed warnings before even asking where you stand in the situation or opposite because your single you get constantly pushed onto
" I have the perfect person for you" - which if they are a friend of a friend puts you in a whole new walking on egg shells situation.
C. last its difficult to tell the genuine from the player these days.
I'll go ahead and be honest.
- I'm a romantic sap- enter my friends teasing me that I love ,<>
the idea of the old fashion dating- first dates, first kisses. flowers and dancing photo booth photos .. lil surprise notes and calls for no reason.. blah blah
Every girl has quick ways to her heart..
3 ways to my mine
flowers for no reason
being game for anything/making me feel like i can take you around anyone.
Now for the real reason wrote the blog - guess you come to notice I tend to go on tangents. anyways
No one ever said dating was easy. First dates are awkward, second dates are expectant and the dates that follow that -- determine if you love or hate the corks and present hundreds of opportunities for missteps
SO DATING 101 :
starts with THE THREE DAY RULE -
sadly i may not like this rule however im one of those that are the reason a guy abides by it.
you call to often or to soon and i loose interest. I doubt your interested and i walk too.. man Im a pain! ( but worth it)
If you call before 3 days you’re too desperate. If you wait too long it shows them, they’re really not important enough to call sooner. This whole dating thing is ass backwards in my opinion. - take me back to the good ol' days
rule 2 - apparently meeting the parents isn't a big deal anymore.. call me old fashion but meeting the parents still seems like a BIG deal. after all whether its quick or a long time before your invited to meet them their opinion counts - its the ultimate make or break deal- at least in my world. after all your family knows you best so who better to help you decide if the "other half" is the right one for you.
3. If its a dinner date don't get drunk! time and place people.
4. Ask questions to. nothing irritates me more then when only one person does all the talking. or worse when you have to be the one to carry the convo. its exhausting.
5. Lear to dance. even if you have two left feet. if your having fun so is she.
the bright side of dating. -
even if the date went HORRENDOUS. it will be a great story later.
and finding the one. well its really all about chemistry and TIMING. so stop focusing on the what if future and enjoy the now.
What was your worst date experience ?