tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314983278490774106.post4063781031702490239..comments2023-03-24T01:15:39.391-07:00Comments on sneak peek: Oh sandraKristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16485471055499495887noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314983278490774106.post-9868402956411985342010-05-05T14:04:47.123-07:002010-05-05T14:04:47.123-07:00your number one is awesome. lol and the rest of th...your number one is awesome. lol and the rest of the list is actually quite good as well. man being classy aint easy ;) LOL !!!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16485471055499495887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3314983278490774106.post-44278642163259673632010-05-04T23:12:54.986-07:002010-05-04T23:12:54.986-07:00"One of new understanding." I like that...."One of new understanding." I like that. After this I have a new-found appreciation for Sandra. <br /><br />That's a pretty comprehensive list for classy. I like it. I'll try to offer something different:<br /><br />5. Manners - "please", "thank you", an overall graciousness; knowing when to take a call at dinner and when to let it go to voicemail<br /><br />4. Awareness - I'll offer an example of the opposite. A few friends were over watching TV and one of them was sitting with his new girlfriend. During a commercial a girl in a bikini bent over to pick up something in the sand. The guys offers up in a low voice, "I'd like to bend her over." Long pause. His girl simply says, "Time and place."<br /><br />3. Empathy - share/understand other people's feelings. This is really just a copy of your "understanding", so I had to use a different word. ;) -- Don't dump someone on facebook. <br /><br />2. Perspective - An impulsive action might be cathartic in the moment, but it can lead to pain inflicted upon yourself or others. Having the foresight to understand the gravity of a situation and the stillness to be patient are definite virtues of class. Sandra clearly has this down pat. <br /><br />1. Allure - I think it may be more for the ladies. No, that's not true, the ladies have the same thing for the fellas, I just don't know those elements are exactly. It's still hard to place for women, but some have something about them. A way they cross their legs when they sit or how they move their hands when fingering through a menu. Grace isn't about being proper and deliberate with every action, just every now again you'll catch a physical clue.Buhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09913545453516321440noreply@blogger.com